Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Resentful?

I was asked the other day (during my massage that was supposed to be relaxing, but all she did was talk and ask questions... quite annoying. But that's another story!) if I was resentful at the military for everything that has happened.
To any of you who might have any question about that at all, my answer is absolutely not.

I am behind our military one hundred percent. I hate hearing anyone talk bad about my country, my president, and the military. I have said it before, it was my honor to be in love with a soldier.

To those who don't stand behind America, I ask you to please leave. We don't need you, you are simply a waste of space. I've always liked the saying "Love it or leave it"

To those who don't stand behind our president, I ask you to run for the next election. Heck, I'll even help you out and vote for you. When you win, (heaven forbid) we'll see how you run the country. I know he isn't a perfect man, but he has an extremely hard job, and he's done better than most would do under the circumstances of America today.

To those who don't stand behind our military, I ask you to please stand in front of them. These men and women are putting their own lives on the line so that you and I can live here peaceably. Think of all the comforts we have, all the freedoms we have. Our soldiers fought and died so that we can all have that right to complain about how hard we have it. I know that they didn't have to be in the military, that's true. There are many other employment opportunities out there, yes, but someone had to step up and do the dirty work.

I know that 99.9% of the people reading this are already feeling much of the same way as I am, so I am just venting I guess! This is my basic speech whenever I hear somebody complaining in the line at the store about the war, etc.

And there you have it.

20 comments:

Angry White Guy said...

And THAT is the most lovely thing I've read today.

It's a set of ideals that Cindy Sheehan seems to be utterly lacking, don't you think.

Keep the faith.

karin in tx said...

Well said!

Solo said...

It's funny Mel that this long haired ,bearded, motorcycle riding civilian has found that I am most comfortable around military folks. I fully support the troops, and their mission. As for some of those who aspire to run for President, and run from Iraq and Afghanistan, well I can only wonder what else they will run from.

BostonMaggie said...

***To those who don't stand behind our military, I ask you to please stand in front of them.***

LOL! What a great line. I think I'm going to steal it (I'll credit you, of course).

I've read most of your posts. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope this blog is helping you. I also hope it helps you to know how many people out here care about you.

Keep your chin up, kid!

And for the masseuse that wouldn't keep quiet.....I know it sounds like tattling (which I am sooooo against), but I strongly recommend you call the spa and report her. There is nothing more annoying that someone who spoils your services. I don't get massages (I have men for that), but I go serveral places for body polish and the is nothing worse than a "chatty Cathy". Now I am much older than you, so I have the nerve to say "I prefer not to talk, thank you". But for everyone else, you need to call and report your experience. You're not helping anyone by keeping it in (hasn't this blog taught you that?). She need to know for her own sake. It's affecting her tips and repeat business.

David M said...

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A short recon of what’s out there that might draw your attention.

Kila said...

I agree with you! I'm very tired of the constant bashing of our President and our country.

Angry White Guy said...

There's a Merle Haggard song I think you'd like, as it's right along-side your post regarding running down our country. "Fightin' Side of Me"

Capn Jac said...

Mel,
My wife lost her husband of 20 years at the best time of their
life.Two Daughters in High School
and a new home.Joe had an on the
job accident and was gone.Family
and friends came thru in spaades.
We have been married for 21 yrs now
with 2 fantastic daughters and 6
grand kids.We have a great life a
fine home in Nampa and love Idaho
and Joe is never far from our thoughts.She wrote a pome and it
was published.It was called,4 dishes on the table when 3 will do
it really helped he move forward
May the wind be at your back,may
the sun always shine on you, may
your road always be smooooth.

Sarge Charlie said...

Wow, this is good stuff Mel, would you consider being a guest host on my blog one day,I would be honored.

Anonymous said...

Mel,

I wrote you a note once before, and I just wanted to say that you are a very strong and caring young woman. I am sure that your Jim is looking down upon you and telling his friends "That's MY Mel!" with a smile as big as the sky.

You hang in there. Time makes it better. It never goes away, but in time, you'll see. Time heals all wounds. Yours are deep and to the heart, but even they heal.

Sincerely,

CW4,
416th Engineers

morrisonfamily said...

Hi there,

As you know, I am not even an American and I am behind your president. Finally, we have a prime minister in Canada that is trying to support the troops.

I have more pictures of Jim to send you, just have to scan them.
Mrs. M

Anonymous said...

Hey Mel,

So, I reread your blog, again...keep strong, always...it's hard...I've been in your shoes, and it is still hard---but I'll tell you this, you NEVER stop loving them... and you don't have to, they are your LOVE, FOREVER, as you are theirs...

Here are a few song lyrics, to 4 of my favorites songs that came up, when my fiancee was KIA, they brought me much comfort, and at times, it felt like the songs could say and do more than all the well meaning, wonderful people I met.... so thought I'd share them with you...

Take Care...

Oohrah, Mel..

~Rachael


Heaven Was Needing a Hero
Jo Dee Messina

I came by today to see you
I had to let you know
If I knew the last time that I held you was the last time
I'd have held you and never let go

It's kept me awake nights, wondering
Lie in the dark, just asking why
I've always been told
You won't be called home
Until it's your time

I guess heaven was needing a hero
Somebody just like you
Brave enough to stand up
For what you believe
And follow it through
When I try to make it make sense in my mind
The only conclusion I come to
Is heaven was needing a hero
Like you

I remember the last time I saw you
You held your head up proud
I laughed inside
When I saw how you were standing out in the crowd
You're such a part of who I am
Now that part will just be void
No matter how much I need you now
Heaven needed you more

Cause heaven was needing a hero
Somebody just like you
Brave enough to stand up
For what you believe
And follow it through
When I try to make it make sense in my mind
The only conclusion I come to
Is heaven was needing a hero
Like you

Heaven was needing a hero
and that's you


Mercyme - Homesick Lyrics


You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

And I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow

I've never been more homesick than now


Lee Ann Rimes- Probably Wouldn't be this way

Got a date a week from Friday with the Preacher's son,
Everybody says he's crazy, I'll have to see
I finally moved to Jackson when the summer came,
I won't have to pay that boy to rake my leaves
I'm probably going on and on it seems I'm doing more of that these days

(Chorus:)
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it,
Oh you left so fast,
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes it's like I'm losing touch
Sometimes I feel I'm so lucky to have had the chance to love this much
God give me moments grace
Cause if I'd nevber seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way

Momma says that I just shouldn't speak to you,
Susan says that I should just move on,
You oughta see the way these people look at me,
When they see me 'round here talking to this stone,
Everybody thinks I've lost my mind but I just take it day by day

(Chorus:)
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it,
Oh you left so fast,
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes it's like I'm losing touch
Sometimes I feel I'm so lucky to have had the chance to love this much
God give me moments grace
Cause if I'd nevber seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way

I probably wouldn't be this way,
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad,
I never pictured every minute without you in it,
Oh you left so fast,
Sometimes I see you standing there,
Sometimes I feel an angels touch
Sometimes I feel that I'm so lucky to have had the chance to love this much
God give me a moments grace
Cause if I'd never see your face
I probably woudln't be this way
I probably wouldn't be this way

Got a date a week from a Friday with the Preacher's son,
Everybody says I'm crazy, guess I'll have to see



Dancing with the Angels---Monk & Neagle

Memories surround me
But sadness has found me
I'd do anything for more time
Never before has someone meant more
And I can't get you out of my mind
There is so much that I don't understand
But I know

Chorus:
You're dancing with the angels
Walking in new life
You're dancing with the angels
Heaven fills your eyes
Now that you're dancing with the angels

You had love for your family
Love for all people
Love for the Father, and Son
Your heart will be heard
In your unspoken words
Through generations to come
There is so much that I don't understand
But I know

Chorus

Bridge:
We're only here for such a short time
So I'm gonna stand up
Shout out
And sing Hallelujah
One day I'll see you again

Winfred Mann said...

Vent all you like. The anti-American crowd can leave anytime as far as I'm concerned.

I mourn for your loss. I went to Arlington two years ago for a family member. It was a pleasure to meet his friends who served with him. I never met a finer more dedicated group of people (SOF).

All the best to you,

WM

military granny said...

Mel
Its so good to hear others have the same feelings I have. My boy is a member of the Canadian military and on the bumper of my car is a magnet with the very words you have said, IF YOU DONT STAND BEHIND OUR SOLDIERS PLEASE FEEL FREE TO STAND IN FRONT OF THEM!

Loving Annie said...

Very well said, Meliisa --

Sarge Charlie said...

Hi Mel
After rereading your post, I would to take this to my site and post it as yours, If I do not hear otherwise I will post it tomorrow, Tuesday. May 1, 2007. Thank you again and know you are never far from my thoughts.

SGT DUB said...

Beautifully spoken.

Brett the Elder said...

Family's got to be proud of that-so are we

AF_Girl said...

Melissa-

I just wanted to say thank you for your support and love for our troops and this Country. As a young woman in the Military, it really warms my heart to know there are still people out there my age that share my thoughts and opinions on these things! God Bless.

Frontline Fobbit said...

Melissa, thank you for putting your life out here for us. I am a new reader to your blog and will be back. I truly admire your passion and devotion to all that you love.

-Will (Frontline Fobbit)